Originally Posted by
Bonefish
During this time in our nation, the nation is divided along political ideologies. This division has fostered resentment among our people. So does this resentment lead to confrontation, which leads to a source tension that leads to stress? It seems that is the case, and maybe “conflict aversion” is a much-needed therapy. So what is the best way to make your point or initiate a conversation without triggering a defensive response?
When someone comments on a computer form, it is easier to say things one would not normally say face-to-face, which may lead to feelings and conduct that is not productive. Real facts and solutions most likely will get lost or never will get across. We should stick with the fact and solutions, and not in language abusive in nature. Feeling apprehensive is normal during this time in our nation, but we should keep our emotions in check. We can vent, but not make it personal. Anger is always counterproductive.
When I see all the injustice in our world today, I have to admit; it depresses me. This injustice does make one angry. However, we must find peace in our daily lives, or life is not worth living. So how is this peace possible? Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32). A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Proverbs 15:1).
Bonefish