Yes life isn't fair.And that is A BUNCH OF BULL ABOUT THE HANDLING PART. A hospice minister said to me once, that is something he'd never tell anyone.And he was accostomed to seeing the misery of a lot of people on the way out, patients and family.I've been through the "why me" several times, its becoming second nature sort of.Watching loved ones paralized, stricken with altziemers, cancer,and you wonder if its all worth it. Then I think of my son and daughter, two good things finally happened to me. I've had a lot of bad days also, but something I think about6 is thisMy bad days are better than some folks good days.Ya'll take care.