Make short term comfort and convience buying wants based on their long term returns. The kitchen upgrade satisfies a current want but also adds long term real estate value. A car with a warranty entails monthly payment, but avoids any major cost outlays. A recreational second property avoids motel costs, can be rented when not occupied, and still appreciates in value even if not fully used.....it's an investment. Treat it like that, like a stock don't fall in love with it. Buy it, use it, keep it up for sale always, and if the right numbers come along take, it, profit, and go grab the next one.

The only assets you can't trade in life are your health and your love for others. Treat all assets as just that, and with your analytical thinking, you can enjoy all.