First off, congratulations for asking for help and not just giving up....proud of you for that. Secondly, go to the nearest reputable sporting goods store and politely ask if they can out you in touch with someone who might be willi.g to let you tag along on bass fishing trips.....if you do find someone keep your eyes and ears open, ask questions, if your new partner doesnt have time to answer your questions.....get a NEW partner. Also, if you ever fish cumberland pm me, i will help you anyway i can....