Quote Originally Posted by DJD View Post
Could I participate in those activities?? No way no how. It really disgusts me to my inner core. You guys who have played football or in the military know how "nekid" you are in the open showers and how close you get(physical not emotional) with other men. So my point is even then with all that I would choose No, NEVER....and unlike George Costanza of Seinfeld.....mine never moved!

Let me ask this...how many of you men have had a man massage or manipulate your back or neck? I'm talking professionally! I have several times and it was fine. I'm not a homophobe. Every man that touches you or that may be close to like best friends doesn't make you gay even if you hug or cry with that person during tough times. IMO as an adult you decide what you are it's not like a cold that you catch via a sneeze or being coughed on.
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So.... you are saying to "choose" that is not in you but you say it is in other people, if I was to analyze that I would think the 'other people' would require something that would allow them to choose that.