Quote Originally Posted by DJD View Post
Yep I think it's a choice. I choose not to be and others choose to be. Some people choose to be Gay late in life. I have several women neighbors who are lesbians and in both couples one spouse had kids with their man Many years ago while they were playing it straight.
Disagree about the choice deal. I know of similar situations. One female friend went through the same thing. Dated guys in high school. Got married and had a kid. Divorced and has been with women ever since. Grew up in a small midwest town. Lots of pressure to conform and date men. Said it just never felt right. Figured it was that she was not with the right guy. Had a date with a women after the divorce and suddenly it clicked. Things felt right for the first time. Ask your neighbors sometime and see if you do not get a similar response. I have no doubt that you'll find both males and females who come to the realization later in life that they've been dating the opposite sex when really they should have been dating the same sex. Pressures to conform can sometimes override natural urges so such things are repressed and the person goes through life unhappy.