Man Geo, read your quote to my wife, and she told me to respond...we did better than our parents and we gave our kids everything, and we regret it!!!!! I have 2 children, and my daughter is 26 and don't think she has had a job for longer than a month, she has a sense of entitlement, that she got from her parents not making her work for anything.....now my son is totally different, wanted to serve his country, just made E4, and re-enlisted for another 4 years, and we couldn't be prouder of him, he is hard working, respectful to his elders, and takes his job very seriously....one thing I have to say is that I would never want to see a child go hungry, but I believe if you don't work, you should not get a penny more for 2 kids as you do for 15.....i think its bull that a man that cannot pay his child support can go to jail, but a woman can lay up and have 15 kids with no consequences, that woman should be put in jail for child endangerment, kids put in foster care, and have her sterlized!!!! I am tired of paying for people who think I owe them something, I don't owe anyone anything, and we need to eradicate welfare completely except for a one year period, if your capable of working, and you don't find job in a year, your cut off.....put the kids in homes, and let them be adopted to parents that can teach them how to be responsible adults instead of teaching them how to live on welfare!!!!!