Quote Originally Posted by ZoraSpook View Post
I do really hope things improve for ya. I know that sounds too little but don’t know what to do to help. Crazy thought can that dumpster be pulled out the way with a pickup?

All history aside, what could any of us do to lend a hand?
My cousins from the East Coast drove 13 hours to get her and see my mother. They spent two days here visiting and watching over my mother as she is dying. Mom got move to hospice today and will die there a natural death while in good hands that will see that she is without pain and suffering. My cousins are heading back home tonight. They have over 750 miles to drive and will spend the night in a hotel tonight, so they don't have to stay on the road for another 13 hours. I'm worn out. I went to see her at the nursing home this morning and not knowing if was still alive or dead was hard to bear. Luckily, she survived the night and was a little more aware and talkative. But she has dementia, and it comes and goes. She is refusing food and water so that is what happens when they are dying. I got her to drink some water two days ago which is prolonging her life but the last two days she won't even drink water for me. Hospice is the best place for her right now. And I can get some much needed rest.