I have a 99 chevy silverado truck, and you can not shut the lights off at night when the truck is running. I know how you feel. It bothers me too, as well as the poor folks in the campground. I just call the dealer and asked about it. They said the newer models you can now turn the lights off. They said there is no switch you can installed to correct the problem either. I'd like to help, but what can i do?