the good book says that the rain falls on the just ANDunjust.bad things happen to good people. bad things happen to bad people,you just never hear about it. God is always in control and things like this happen for a reason. my grandad had 3 children under age 18 die. 1 in a coal mine accident (18) 1 by polio(6) 1 by a drunk driver getting out of a car coming home from church of all thing(13) he never never 1 time blamed god,all he ever said about to me was he guesed that god figured he could handle it and that his faith and family grew even stronger. he even dropped charges against the drunk driver said he felt sorry for him he had a family too. how often would you hear that?? stay strong and gods speed!!