God is ALWAYS there...I truly believe that. I have no idea Elwood, why bad things happen to good people, it doesn't make sense to me at all...just like you're asking yourself about your brother inlaws situation, I also ask myself why a little child would suddenly be without a mother at a very young age...most certainly a 4 year old little girl didn't do anything bad to deserve something like that...but it's happened.

I don't know what else to say...just letting you know that I'm keeping your situation in my thoughts. Hang in there Bro'...