I'm with you Elnut... to me, you're born, you live, you die, you rot in the ground... that's just my take (you got but one life to live! So live it up!). But nonetheless, I will pray (as I have for others) for your family. Who knows... I could be wrong (wouldn't be the first time!), and if I am and it helps even a little to pray, then I say it's worth it! Praying don't take much than a heart anyways.