elwood,
real sorry for your families loss. I know it has been a tough year for you and your family and we will continue to send up prayers for you and yours. Just remember that we are always here for you anytime you need us even if it is in thoughts and prayers. Nothing wrong with caring and compassion for your fellow man even if it is on a fishin site for I feel that we all share a bond that is hard to find any where else. My best to you and yours.