Maybe you got off on the wrong foot at the begining. Before my first marriage, I and my whole family told my beloveded that i was a fishing addict,and it was not going to change.She understood that. My second wife was informed of that same fact, and I told her that if it was going to be a problem, then we were not meant for each other, she agreed, that was my only stipulation. my present lady friend knows about my problem, again I told her she is always welcome, and thats the wayit is. I am widowed twice, and both wives knew that an extramarital affair, would interfewre with my fishing, and both said i'd probably rather fish than screw around, and its true.There are a lot of women out there, but only a few good fishing spots!!!!!!