" You Have a Sickness".....Is what I have heard for twenty years now, along with "I,m Not mad because you fish, I'm mad because you're spending time with them and not me". BUT, if the situation arises and she knows I want to fish a certain club tourney, or just want to get out on the lake and away from it all, she right there to help do whatever it takes to get me there. Club tourney, fun fishing or just getting out on the water, she knows there is always a seat open for her. Heck, the dual console was put in for her, not me!
"Whisker"... It's all meet in the middle. You each need "Me" time away from each other and things when life calls for it. In my opinion when Me times given, believe it or not you will each look forward to "Together" time and even need it from each other by sharing what gives you the best relaxation, which is your "Me time Interest".
Turn it into an AA type meeting. Hi, I'm Catfishwhisker, and I fish.. and then tell her why and what fishing gives you, and go from there.

Remember, it has always been claimed by women that they hooked a man, we men never claim to hook a woman, we know it would dull a good hook!!!!
Good Luck and Hang in There Buddy!!