Yikes! It sounds like she is trying to control you....that can only lead to disaster. Get counseling first.Originally Posted by CTFSHWHISKER
I would recommend talking with her about your needs to fish...and get out on the water. At the same time, she is going to have some needs your not meeting. If you're doing your job...assuming she's not mental, sick or heavily medicated...you'll get out. Your job being self-sacrifice and showing her she's more important than anything.
I'm 36 and use to have the same problem for the first 15 years of our relationship. Then through some counseling we got it all on the table. Now, I go 4-5 days a month....basically every other weekend on the moons. She knows how much it means to me to get out and how it benefits our relationship/her.
Good luck friend!
Mark
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