Quote Originally Posted by Cheese View Post
Perhaps this is the key. Do you give her time away from the baby to relax? Do you change the stinky diapers? Do you take care of putting the baby to bed 4 nights a week? Maybe if you gave her more baby-free time, she would give you more fishing time with less resistance. Newborns can put a lot of pressure/stress on a new Mom.

Just my 2 cents, and that is probably all it is worth.
her idea is if you say time away then you shouldn't be married.I try give her a day,when i mention it then it's a fight..oh so you don't want to spend the day with me,she don't see it as a day for her..as me wanting to be rid of her.Yes i do the diaper thing.I don't get home from work til 11:45 so she is in bed,therefore i get up with her in the morning so the wife can sleep in..I give her baths every other day fix her eats,dress her and spend the morning with her til she naps and i go to work.
I,some of you,and others around seem to see the same control thing,i asked here because of unbiasness,as my family may have.I wanted other opinions.It just seems no matter what i try it don't work.I have not had a rod (fishing)
in my hand since a week before t-giving,been malling and doing what i can to see if it would help,soon imentioned fishing the first warm days it started.
seems no matter what she wants to make a fight of it.i quote her"if couples don't fight they don't love each other"could be why she was divorced the first time..and my mom and dad must hate each other