I divorced over two years ago, and I have two young children. Things between us were not working out. So instead of staying and being miserable, we divorced. Yes, almost two hundred dollars a week comes out of my check for child support, but happiness goes a LONG way. My wife now does not bitch or complain when I am fishing. Sometimes she even goes. Everyone needs away time. No two ways about that. Do what you think is best. There is only one person who can make that choice.