I can tell you that nowadays you don't know who to trust and this world had hardened so many hearts it make me want to weep, Sometimes as men we seem to question everything because everything isn't black and white, God will bless us for giving unconditionally whether you give to someone who doesn't need or deserve it or someone who is sincere as I believe you are. I read your original post the day you posted it and never read where you asked for money just "where to find tackle for your kids" I read the replies I saw the offers, never thought anything of it, you didn't ask for someone to "donate": a loomis rod for your kids - I got it. As was responded "I will pray for you and your family" and hopefully you seen you were blessed but Satan will turn good into bad and make us question everything and look for something wrong, especially when there isn't anything but good concerned. I didn't send anything except prayers, I didn't offer to help - I prayed for you there's a bigger helper than me and he'll see you through.