Ive learned way more about myself and about life the times Ive been the looser than I ever did being the winner. This is just one of the stepping stones in life that all decent humans have to go through, your son will definately be the better for the experience. Hats off to you as a father raising your child with some ethics. This will probably be just one of many reasons in the future your son will respect you as a father and a man. As far as getting mad at the other fellow ......I try not to sweat the little stuff.........