Hmmm....agreed. That way you can't see the nasty things people say to you and you'd have no need to defend yourself. Another way of looking at it, personally, I'd rather see the good and the bad. But that's just me. And ya know sometimes people have to butt heads for a while to come to a truce and a reconciliation. Sometimes its not what is said but how its said. And sometimes when somebody gets attacked, its just time to play around the horns for a little to see if someone see's the futility in being just a little to self-righteous/pushy. That's why I get flippant, to highlight the antagonism I am responding to, and to dance around the horns. Cause seriously, tell me what can happen on this board that really should make me worry too much? Is a forum for discussion, not a dark alley.

No offense intended, we all got our own opionion and I respect yours.