Margie,
I agree with what you said about some men. I know of a few and they give me junk because I haven't remarried. Truth is after being divorced it changed my perspective on life. If I am lucky enough to find a woman who will let me play with my toys and stay home to cook and clean my house then I'll be set! Just kidding of course!!
Seriously though if I find someone who matches up with me the last thing I want is people telling me it's wrong. It's up to me, I'm a big boy and if you don't make mistakes then you will never learn.