DJD i agree with most things you said....and having played ball I've had teammates mouth off and be told to shut the hell up or something along those lines...but to say FU or F off, i think that might be crossing the line a little....9 times out of 10 a man says that to another man you've got a fight on your hands....and players are put in a position where they can't react like most humans would for fear of being benched the rest of the season....anybody remember latrell spreewell choking his coach?...I agree it goes on more than we think it does but that doesn't mean its right....there are better ways of getting a players attention and commanding more respect than how he attempted to do it