Need Advice...

[Embrey]

i guess ill be a redneck for life!

[kygorski]

I dont know if this will help you or not,if you are able to, let the wife stay home to raise your child, its very hard to do now a days. My wife stayed home and raised our two children, both are college grads, and both were national honor students.There were a lot of things we did with out, but it was the best choice we ever made.My sons wife died of cancer when his daughter was just 10 yrs old, I'm amazed he was able to cope with a young daughter. He quit his very good job, became a teacher at her school, and this summer she graduated, she is going to college, with no tuition aide,and its made life just a tad easier on him. He also demanded to have her dates see him, some he told his daughter he wouldn't allow her to see a guy like that.