Now the hell do you imagined the fact that I also sent two kids to college, and paid for parochial education for 8 yrs for each of them?In many cases three jobs at a time, taking the bus to work so that the wife could use the only used car we had. We didn't have food stamps, free lunch programs. BUT we had an area where jobs were available, at decent wages. My wife wanted to work, but knew it was better to be a mother, not an extra wage earner.You guys say the country is going to hell! its been there, and in my opinion is not coming back.